Todays lecture was about the constructive and destructive games that people play when dealing with relationships. I thought that the statement about playing those silly games or taking the silly quizzes for couples is completely destructive. That just shows how much you don't trust your partner and how you don't believe it when he/she says I love you. The constuctive games could help you learn more about your partner. It helps you to see where they come from, what they believe in, and what they value in life. It is sometimes important to play constructive games because you can really find out a lot of valuable information that could help you see who your partner is. You wouldn't want to be dating someone for a long time and find out important things about them and end up disagreeing with them. Relationships can be hard and they aren't easy to explain. But you do need good communication so that you can find out who your partner really is.
Pre-marital inventories also help in furthering the relationship with your partner before you enter marriage. It is important to communicate with your partner so that you can see how your married life is exactly going to be. It is also important to see their side view too. You need to be able to recognize their emotions and thoughts so that the two can work together to have a stable, loving marriage.
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