Ch 10

I did not enjoy reading chapter 10, it actually confused me a little. It said that couples who shared equal power were not as happy as couples who had one person with more power than the other. However, when I read the different types of powers and examples they all seemed manipulative and they were all described in a bad way. Is there a good way to hold power? What research shows us that these couples are happier? I can see that they would be happier because it is the norm and thats just the way it goes in their society. I guess I don't like the idea of somebody else having that kind of power over me.