conflicts

when talking about conflict resolution last thrusday i was very interested with the graph that was drawn on the board. my whole life i believed the couple that was the happiest was the couple who hardly fought and when they did it was very small, probably because my parents (to my knowledge) have a great relationship and hardly fight. my sister however and her boyfriend fight all the time. about little things, about big thing, and about everything in between. my mom and i have agreed from the start of my sisters relationship that because they fight so much they are not a good couple and should break up. however after thursdays class i started to think about my sisters and her boyfriends fights. yes they fight a lot, but i realized they are an example of one of those couples who can get up to 80 and go back to 0. i have realized that even though my sister and her boyfriend fight and my parents never fight both of their relationships are possibly very good relationships.