jspli Conflict Resultion

The discussion of conflict resolution made me realize that the severity of the fight is unimportant, rather its about how well the couple interacts when they are not fighting. It is also important to that the conflict gets resolved and not just pushed aside. This made me think about one of my previous relationships. My ex-boyfriend and I would have the same fight over and over. Thursday discussion made me realize that we never really resolved the issue we were fighting about. So then when a new argument came about, we always brought up past arguments. In this relationship I also felt like my opinion didn't matter. When we did argue, I was always interrupted and never felt like he could see my side of the argument. Know how make arguments healthy and how important it is to come to an understanding when resolving it will help me to make fighting "successful" in future relationships.