Thursday, April 2, 2009
ktho blog
I think the most interesting classes yet have been the ones over conflict and conflict resolution. It really helps to hear and learn about conflict in my personal relationship. I have realized the "dance" category that I am. I also found it very interesting to learn that the number and level of fights is irrelevant in determining happy couples. The only thing is that it is hard to focus on the process and how we fight instead of what we fight about. I also find it true about homeostasis, once you start to fight a certain way it is really hard to change that.
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I also realized what dance category I am in too. I didn't realize though how many different categories there were. But by thinking about how my friends act and people around me I can know tell just by listening what kind of style they are showing off. I also understand now how it doesn't matter how high your fights are like we showed in the graph on the board, but what really matters is if you can solve your conflict, or if you can bring it back down. Its really good to know that people need to start watching their process of the fight not what the fight is really about. Knowing this will help save alot of relationships I believe. People just need to communicate better and then think about how they can renegotiate to solve their problems.
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